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What Really Makes You an Adult?
What makes someone an adult? That’s the core question we’re diving into today. We’ve seen how traditionally, adulthood was tied to milestones like marriage or buying a house, but nowadays, those markers often come later in life. It’s kind of wild when you think about it—at 18, you can vote or even face life in prison, but you can’t legally buy a drink until you’re 21. The science isn’t much clearer either, with brain development continuing into the mid-20s and differing between genders. To me, being an adult is less about age and more about the willingness to try, stumble, and get back up again. What do you think? I’d love to hear your thoughts over at jamesabrown.net.
Takeaways:
- In the past, adulthood was often marked by marriage or owning a home, but these milestones are happening later in life now.
- Current laws in America struggle to define adulthood accurately, leading to confusion about what it truly means to be an adult.
- You can vote, go to jail, or even serve in the military at 18, yet you can't buy alcohol until you're 21, which doesn't quite add up.
- Scientific understanding suggests our brains continue developing until around age 25, with different timelines for men and women.
- There isn't a perfect definition of adulthood, but I believe being an adult involves resilience, trying, failing, and getting back up again.
- Ultimately, the concept of adulthood is subjective, and it's essential to reflect on what being an adult means to you.
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Transcript
This is the Daily note from jamesabrown.net in the past, we've marked adulthood with marriage or home ownership, but today those usually come later.
Speaker A:Our laws try and fail to explain adulthood properly.
Speaker A:Americans can vote or go to jail for life at 18 and even kill in our military.
Speaker A:But no, we can't buy alcohol till we're 21.
Speaker A:Science doesn't have the answer either.
Speaker A:Our brains keep developing until around 25, and men and women are said to develop on different timelines.
Speaker A:So what makes us adults?
Speaker A:There is no perfect definition, but to me, an adult is someone willing to try and fail and pull themselves back up and keep going.
Speaker A:So what do you think?
Speaker A:Let me know on jamesabrown.net on that note, I'm James A.
Speaker A:Brown and as always, be well.
