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Buying a Home with Friends: Dream or Disaster?

Buying a home with friends might seem like a dream, but it often turns into a complicated dilemma. James Brown explores the trend of co-buying homes, which surged during the pandemic as rising house prices made solo ownership feel unattainable. He highlights the story of Celeste King, who invested with friends, only to face the difficult decision of sacrificing her share of the home's appreciation or risking her friendships. This phenomenon reflects a deep desire for a slice of the American dream, even if it means making risky financial ties. James questions the wisdom of this approach, pondering whether the potential pitfalls outweigh the benefits. Would you consider buying a home with friends, or does it seem too risky?

James Brown delves into the increasingly popular yet complex trend of co-buying homes with friends, a practice that saw a surge during the pandemic when individual ownership seemed financially unattainable for many. He explores the allure of shared ownership, where friends can split costs and enjoy communal living experiences like hanging out by a fire pit or sharing vacation spaces. However, James quickly points out the potential pitfalls of such arrangements through the story of Celeste King, who invested with friends but later faced the dilemma of wanting to exit the agreement. Her experience highlights the tension between enjoying the financial gains from property appreciation and preserving personal relationships, a theme that resonates with many who embarked on similar ventures. James uses Celeste's story to illustrate how initial dreams of financial and social benefits can be overshadowed by the practical and emotional challenges of communal ownership.

Takeaways:

  • Buying a home with friends can seem appealing due to shared costs and companionship.
  • The Wall Street Journal highlights potential issues when co-owners want to exit the arrangement.
  • During the pandemic, co-buying homes surged as house prices spiked and solo ownership became challenging.
  • Co-owning a property can strain friendships, especially when disagreements arise over property management.
  • Many who bought homes with friends are now reconsidering due to the complexities involved.
  • James Brown expresses skepticism about financially tying oneself to friends, seeing it as risky.

Companies mentioned in this episode:

  • Wall Street Journal
Transcript
James Brown:

Buying a home with friends.

James Brown:

This is commentary from James Brown.

James Brown:

For some people, I guess this is a dream.

James Brown:

Sharing costs, hanging out by the fire pit, splitting solo weekends at a fraction of the price?

James Brown:

I can see that being tempting.

James Brown:

But as the Wall Street Journal reports, the dream can quickly turn into a dilemma when you want out.

James Brown:

Take Celeste King, for example.

James Brown:

In:

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But after two years, the time and energy spent fixing it up in a stress of vacation renters breaking pool rules left her wanting out.

James Brown:

She had to make a tough choice, give up her share of the 50% appreciation of the home's value or risk her friendships.

James Brown:

Many people bought homes with friends during the pandemic, when solo ownership seemed out of reach.

James Brown:

Data shows that co buying surged, especially as house prices spiked.

James Brown:

But now, a few years out, it makes sense that a few people want out.

James Brown:

Now.

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I can't imagine attempting this.

James Brown:

It's hard enough cohabitating with someone you love, let alone be financially tied to a friend, no matter how close they are.

James Brown:

This phenomena screams desperation.

James Brown:

People who badly want a piece of the american dream but know it's out of reach.

James Brown:

It's actually pretty sad.

James Brown:

What about you?

James Brown:

Would you buy a home with friends, or does it sound crazy like it does to me?

James Brown:

Boy, this is risky.

James Brown:

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James Brown:

on that note, I'm James Brown, and as always, be well.

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